Damn, I've never realized how guys are so similar to girls when it comes to complaining. Bottom line is if you're not man enough to keep your girl then shut up and keep walkin'. Men shouldn't bitch, just zip your lip and go on about your business.
Feel really happy for you.
I was going to post some long winded bs about relationship stuff, but here was our down fall in a nut shell. She has emotional baggage dating all the way back to her childhood. her dad was very emotionally and verbally abusive to her. she was pregnant and had an abortion at 14. Her uncle molested her. Her ex husband was a very physical and emotional abuser as well. I guess if I took things slower and stood back, I would have realized that this would never work from the beginning. She is a very nice girl with a big heart, but she is so ****ed up from all the abuse that she has basically shut down towards other people. She told me that she really loved me, but she couldnt open up to me the way I needed to make it work. This isnt an excuse, I know she tried. She told me she has resigned herself to the fact she cant be with anyone, and that I deserve the happy ending I want to find. She is suffering from crippling depression right now. I hate to see her like this, but I can only go down the road with her so far before I realize I need to cut my losses and move on. It isnt fair to either of us staying together because we cant give each other what we need. So I guess I learned two things. One, be honest with yourself. If it isnt working dont try and make it. Two, dont rush it, itll be there tomorrow and maybe take the time to really learn about who the person your with is.
I dont fault her for it not working out, I dont fault myself either. I just think it was a lot of bad judgement on both our parts. I still love her for that matter.
6-6 288 lbs 33 yo 20 % bodyfat
Don't you ****ing dare, woman. He needs to keep batting for the pink team so he can keep dispensing fashion advice and such. If you cure him, he turns into a regular color blind tard-ass tripod-Viking-- this was regarding TwiloMike. RIP guy.
Im gona have to start wearing wrist wraps just to wipe lol- Hatred